Nobody can give you anything unless you accept it. Negativity more and positivity less happens in our life only because we accept it in that order. Life is always neutral. A bad thing will not affect you much if your attitude is positive. And a good thing will not be effective enough if your attitude is negative. If you develop the attitude to see only the positive side of everything in life, life will be smooth and painless. Nobody or nothing can affect you ever. Life will always be good.